Tuesday, July 18, 2006

Don't lose that 90% that you already have ...

Model: Pittipat and Jojo
Photos by: Rene Gaviola
Location: La Mesa Eco park

(My bestfriend sent out this email way way back pa. When Jason and I had our dialogues on our Discovery Weekend, I mentioned him about this article Bo Sanchez wrote ... share ko lang)

Don't lose that 90% that you already have ..
by: Bo Sanchez

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. "Wow,this girl in my office is a real looker. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not."

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did. Because no wife or husband is perfect.

Because a spouse will only have 90% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 10%. Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laughter. Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pyjamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil,you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt. Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 10% of what you don't have. Don't throw away the 90% that you already have! Add to your spouse's 90% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have. But I'm not just talking about marriage.I'm talking about life! About your jobs. About your friends. About your children. About your lifestyles. Are you like the economy airline
The main message: If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are is FIRST CLASS!


gracita July 18, 2006 2:58 PM  

thanks for sharing this! this just confirmed my belief that fidelity like marriage and love is a CHOICE. if a husband has gone astray, it only means that he didn't choose to be loyal.

Ann July 18, 2006 3:22 PM  

I'm glad you liked my post :) I explained kay Jason na I accepted him wholeheartedly ... pag nag-mature ka na nawawala yung mga qualities of an ideal man eh ... kasi there's no such thing as a perfect person. Wag mo hanapin yung wala sa kanya ...